Recently a fellow Mom let us know about an upcoming Saturday morning conference
through the Mops of Quincy Facebook page. Eight of us (plus a MOPS Grandma!) were able to spend the morning in Norwell to receive some encouragement from Courtney DeFeo.
As a mom in the throes of parenting, Courtney believes that instilling virtues in children starts with laughter, not lectures. That perspective propelled her to write "In this House we will Giggle", in which she offers motivating reflections, real-life stories, and inventive ways to cultivate virtues. Each chapter focuses on one virtue with insights into how this plays out in real life and activity ideas.
In addition to recommending the book, we wanted to share an idea from each virtue to get you started and perhaps thinking about how some of these might work for your family. Here are some of her practical and fun ideas for empowering our kids to become responsible, humble, patient, loving, joyful and generous adults!
Responsibility:
When it's time to clean up, set a timer and make it a game.
Humility:
After a friend or sibling does something big, transfer jealousy to praise by encouraging them to make a congratulations card.
Patience:
Provide them with a choice between a small treat now and a larger treat for later that is hidden in a bag.
Love:
Remind children that they are uniquely made and loved by writing a specific post it love note for their lunch bag or bathroom mirror.
Joy:
Make dance parties a regular part of your routine.
Generosity:
Teach them to distribute gift cards anonymously to a friend or neighbor who needs help or encouragement.
In addition to the book, Courtney also has a blog at: http://courtneydefeo.com/blog
